plz visit Help me get a family lawyer IF you have any question plz comment or email me im a 27 single father of course. i have epilepsy (currently trying to get disability) with other health issues i hardly ever ask her to come and get them, everything is about my kids 3yr and 2yr old, one child isn't biological but I love him to death as well. the mother yells and cusses towards the kids all the time calling them "little shits" and "stop being a damn idiot" and of course more cursing out of her mouth, she is in a stage who just wants to go out and drink and have sex with who ever she wants. basically im a full time baby sitter and not a father this is from her mouth.and also saying til i pay child support i wont be called a father. she claims them on taxes, gets housing, and WIC although i see them all the time. so i get no help from the government there. she can be a very good mom just not ready to take on two kids every day.